The couple, who have been together since 2009, reveal the conversation that started their tumultuous lifestyle and the rules they set when they first started dating.
Olivia and Gage, known as Vista Wife and Vista Husband, met on a night out in Leeds in northern England in 2009 and exchanged numbers. However, it was only after Gage went on summer vacation that the two met again.
It was during pillow talk that Olivia revealed that she considers herself bisexual, or at least bisexual, the couple told YouTube channel Love Don’t Judge. .
“Simply put, it was a mutual decision. There have been ongoing conversations about Olivia’s sexuality for several weeks,” Gage said.
Olivia and Gage, known as Vista Wife and Vista Husband, met on a night out in Leeds in northern England in 2009 and exchanged numbers. Don’t judge love / YouTube
Initially, Olivia was adamant that she wanted to explore her sexuality with Gage, but it was difficult to find single women willing to participate. Then they met a couple and the rest was history.
At first, the couple had rules. Gage could only engage with other women or couples with Olivia, but she was allowed to do as she pleased, as she was uncomfortable at first.
Currently, the relationship between them is in flux and their main concern is maintaining communication.
During Pillow Talk, Olivia said on her YouTube channel Love Don’t Judge that she considers herself bisexual, or at least bisexual. Love Don’t Judge / Youtube “Simply put, it was a mutual decision. There have been ongoing conversations about Olivia’s sexuality for several weeks,” Gage said. Don’t judge love / YouTube
Couples have found that there is a big problem with the apps and forums that exist to meet other like-minded couples. Gage claimed that many are filled with fake profiles.
So they decided to create their own. Therefore, Swing Hub was born to modernize and allow more people to participate in swinging.
“The fact that we’ve created a really safe environment. You can’t screenshot the images that are there, so people can be as discreet as possible,” Olivia said.
Couples have found that there is a big problem with the apps and forums that exist to help them meet other like-minded couples. Don’t judge love / YouTube
“There’s no photo sharing. Everyone is authenticated. Everything is secure so you know who you’re talking to.”
They said all they wanted to do was show people that it’s okay to not be monogamous.
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The couple, who define their marriage as open, have also become famous on social media.
When Olivia and Gage started gaining attention on social media, they called their families. Gage’s mother revealed that she had been watching their TikToks.
The family’s feeling was that it didn’t affect them and as long as the couple was happy, there was no problem.
The two decided to create their own app, Swing Hub, to modernize swinging and allow more people to get involved. Love Don’t Judge / Youtube “The fact that we’ve created a really safe environment. You can’t screenshot the images that are there, so people can be as discreet as possible,” Olivia said. Said. Don’t judge love / YouTube
But things weren’t easy. The couple has experienced a lot of backlash, with some asking why they even bothered to get married, claiming that this was also a form of cheating and that they were spreading sexually transmitted diseases to those around them.
Conversely, since going public, many have thanked the couple for giving them the courage to explore this aspect for themselves.
The couple also has a venue for swingers parties called Vanilla Alternative, which can sometimes draw up to 300 people on a lively night.
The couple has experienced a lot of backlash, with people asking why they even bothered to get married and claiming that this was also a form of cheating. Don’t judge love / YouTube
However, some people at swinger clubs revealed they had lost friends because they were in open relationships. One person claimed that a friend told him that he should cheat on his wife instead.
“Our relationship works because we communicate. When we got into the lifestyle and talked about it a lot, it blended into daily life,” Gage said.
“That in itself makes our relationship work.”
