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Becoming a parent is truly a roller coaster, with unique joys and challenges for queer families. As more LGBTQIA+ people start families, queer parenting books are essential. These books not only offer parenting tips, but also reflect the diverse experiences of queer families.
Why queer parenting books matter
Parenting is not one-size-fits-all, and traditional parenting guides often leave out important details for queer parents. Queer parenting books help bridge the gap by addressing the realities of LGBTQIA+ families. These books tackle everything from navigating the adoption process to dealing with awkward questions from strangers. Representation matters, and for queer parents, these books can provide a sense of community, reassurance, and guidance. They offer relatable stories, practical advice, and affirmation that queer families belong and thrive just like any other family.
If you need tips or want a different perspective on a particular issue, you’re in luck. Here are five queer parenting books every parent of the rainbow should read.
1. “You’ll Be A Wonderful Parent” Jasper Peach
Jasper Peach’s book is an emotional guide that provides support and encouragement for queer parents-to-be. Peach addresses the anxieties that many queer people face on the journey to parenthood. This book is a mix of personal stories and practical advice, making it a comforting read for anyone entering the world of queer parenting.
2. “Love Makes a Family” by Sophie Beer
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This vibrant children’s book is a must-have for LGBTQIA+ families. Sophie Beer’s delightful illustrations celebrate diverse families and show how love, not biology, creates families. Although it’s aimed at children, it’s equally heartwarming for adults. It’s a great way to introduce young children to the idea that every family looks different but is equally valid.
3. “The Queer Parent” by Lotte Jeffs and Stu Oakley
Written by two queer parents, this book is a go-to resource for navigating the ups and downs of raising a family as LGBTQIA+ people. Jeffs and Oakley blend humor, personal stories, and helpful advice. These cover everything from fertility treatment options to accommodating schools and extended families. “The Queer Parent” is perfect for parents looking for relatable, practical guidance.
4. “My Two Moms and Me” by Michael Joosten
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Michael Joosten’s board book celebrates families with two mothers. Simple text and cute illustrations make it perfect for toddlers and preschoolers. “My Two Moms and Me” shows kids that families come in all shapes and sizes and reinforces positive messages about queer family structures at an early age.
5. “Our Subway Baby” by Peter Mercurio
Peter Mercurio’s memoir is a heartwarming story of how he and his partner unexpectedly became parents after they discovered an abandoned baby in a New York City subway station. This book is about love, destiny, and the inseparable bond between parents and children. A moving read that shows how unexpected moments can lead to life-changing experiences. For queer parents, it’s a reminder that family is where love manifests itself, in whatever form it takes.
Finding the right queer parenting books can be of real benefit to LGBTQIA+ families. These books don’t just offer advice, they celebrate the unique experiences and diversity of queer families. Whether you’re preparing for your first child or navigating the daily challenges of parenting, these titles offer practical tips, relatable stories, and spiritual enrichment.
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